一、搭訕英文:必備技巧與策略 Tactics & Strategies

For research purposes, WuShare’s team went around the office to ask both guys and gals whether they’ve ever hit on a stranger before. Our survey was simple with only 3 questions:
1) have you ever picked anyone up?
2) what are some of your pick-up lines?
3) what are some strategies or tactics you can suggest?
To protect the anonymity and confidentiality of those we interviewed, we’ve replaced their real names with pseudonyms.

為了研究,WuShare 小編組問了辦公室的帥哥美女們是否有跟陌生人搭訕的經驗。我們的調查只有三個簡單的問題:




Mr. Patiently Waiting 耐心等待先生

“I am not a flirty guy to begin with, and I used to find it terrifying to talk to strangers, let alone show my interest in them, but I’ve grown to face my fears and get out of my comfort zone. I told myself that I’ve got nothing to lose, but definitely nothing to gain if I don’t try. My main strategies are staying focused and patient. There was a really cute girl who used to work at a coffee shop and to get her attention, I would try and visit the shop every day, ordering the same, complicated drink. After a few visits, I could tell she remembered and recognized me as soon as I walked in the door. When I felt the timing was right, I struck up a conversation beyond the usual “I’ll have a tall chai latte with skimmed milk and a dash of cinnamon.” I went on and added things like, “I bet you know what I was going to order, eh?” It wasn’t long before we exchanged contact information.”




Ms. Now or Never 要不就現在小姐

“One of the bravest things I’ve ever done was going up to this guy on the train. I don’t normally do things like this but as he walked by me on the train that morning, he really took my breath away, you know? He was pretty tall, had headphones on, wore faded jeans and nodded his head to the beat of his music. There was just something about him. He wasn’t just good looking, but there was something about his aura. I’ve always been really outgoing and talking to strangers was never a problem, but there was something about him that gave me the butterflies… I had 11 more stops before I had to get off, 11 more stops before I had to say goodbye to this gorgeous human being, so at the 7th stop, I gathered all my courage and walked up to this guy. Oh, thank goodness there weren’t a lot of people that morning! So anyways, I literally just said, ‘Hi, I’ve been wanting to talk to you since you got on the train. I am getting off in 4 stops and I don’t want to seem creepy but I would really love to get to know you more.’ Unfortunately, it wasn’t a fairytale ending. He politely rejected me, ‘Oh wow, thanks, I’m flattered, but, uh… I have a girlfriend.’ Needless to say, it was awkward for me but he was so nice and told me he really appreciates girls with guts. It wasn’t how I wanted things to go, but at least I tried and I’ve never regretted it.”

「在火車上跟這傢伙搭訕是我這輩子最勇敢的一次了。我通常不會做這樣的事情但是那天早上他在火車上經過我的時候,他真的讓我驚艷到忘了呼吸,你懂那個感覺嗎?他還蠻高的,戴著耳機,穿著刷白的牛仔褲然後輕輕的隨著音樂點著頭。對我來說 那是一種說不上的特別。他不只是小鮮肉而已,他就像是有光環的樣子(我整個超花癡的)。我一直以來都是很外向不害怕跟陌生人講話的人,但是看到他的時候竟然讓我小鹿亂撞!離我下車還有十一站的距離就必須跟這位神秘人物說再見了,所以我在第七站的時候提起我所有的勇氣走過去。噢,感謝老天爺那早上人沒有很多!總之,我真的直接說“嗨,從你上車以來我就想來跟你講話,我再四站就要下車了,我不想要讓你覺得我很奇怪,但我希望可以多認識你一點。”很遺憾的,這並不是一個童話故事的結局。他禮貌地回絕了我:“噢哇,感謝,我有點受寵若驚,但...我有女朋友了。”不用多說,當下我超尷尬,但是他人很好的告訴我說他很欣賞我這種很勇敢有勇氣的女孩子。雖然結局不如同我想像但是至少我試過了而且我不會後悔。」


Ms. Batting Eyes 拋媚眼小姐

“I’m not very experienced at picking up guys, but if there’s a guy I’m interested in at a bar or club, I’ll allow him to catch me looking at him and look away. Usually, if the guy is interested, they’ll come over. Not really sure if this counts as a pick-up strategy, though!”



Mr. I-like-you-and-you-know-it 妳知道我喜歡妳先生

“I like to keep things classy and show girls that chivalry ain’t dead. I’ll be on my best behavior, open doors, pull out chairs, and all. And I have no problem telling them right away that I’m attracted to them! I find that this is just a more efficient use of both of our time, if one isn’t feeling the vibe, then we can both move on. None of that play-hard-to-get crap.”



Mr. Cheesy-tacky-but-oh-so-classy 俗氣又經典先生

“I’m not great looking and it’s not like I have a lot to offer, but my sense of humor has always helped me in my relationships and meeting new people. I’ll bust out all the old, out-of-date, cheesy pick-up lines, the girls will laugh and call me tacky, but it’s a great conversation opener. No matter how tacky the lines are, with the right attitude, some girls still appreciate the timelessness of these pick-up lines.”




二、經典(老派)搭訕英文語句 Classic (old-fashioned) Pick-up Lines

For entertainment purposes, we’ve listed out a few classic (but really, old-fashioned) pick-up lines. We (ages 25–35, female and male) rated these on a scale of 1–10 (1 = acceptable cheesy, 10 = do-not-ever-use-this cheesy). Remember, these lines used to work back in the days, so who knows, maybe it’s about time we bring [some of] them back!



1.Gals: 6.6
Guys: 5
I seem to have lost my phone. Can I borrow yours?
2.Gals: 7.6
Guys: 7
Do I know you? Cause you look a lot like my next girlfriend/boyfriend.
我們是不是在哪裡見過?因為你看起來是我下一任女朋友 / 男朋友 。
3.Gals: 4.8
Guys: 5.67
Do you know what my shirt is made of? Boyfriend/girlfriend material?
你知道我的衣服是什麼製成的嗎?能當男朋友 / 女朋友的料。
4.Gals: 9.2
Guys: 4
I’m lost. Can you give me directions to your heart?
5.Gals: 7.8
Guys: 4.33
Are you sure you’re not tired? You’ve been running through my mind all day.
6.Gals: 7.6
Guys: 4.67
Would you grab my arm, so I can tell my friends I’ve been touched by an angel?
7.Gals: 9.4
Guys: 6.67
There’s only one thing I want to change about you, and that’s your last name.
8.Gals: 5.2
Guys: 6
Do you believe in love at first sight or should I pass by again?
9.Gals: 5.4
Guys: 7.33
Kiss me if I’m wrong, but dinosaurs still exist, right?
10.Gals: 6.2
Guys: 3
Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven?
11.Gals: 5.9
Guys: 4.67
Can I follow you home? ’Cause my parents always told me to follow my dreams.
12.Gals: 6.8
Guys: 3
Is your name Google? Because you have everything I’ve been searching for.
13.Gals: 5.6
Guys: 5
Do you have a pencil? ’Cause I want to erase your past and write our future.
14.Gals: 9.6
Guys: 7.67
Somebody call the cops, because it’s got to be illegal to look that good!
15.Gals: 8.2
Guys: 4.33
Hello. Cupid called. He wants to tell you that he needs my heart back.



The findings of our research showed us a couple of things: 1) our coworkers aren’t the boring individuals we thought they were, and 2) it doesn’t matter whether you’re a guy or gal, sometimes it just takes an ounce of courage to step out of your comfort zone to approach someone you’re interested in. What do you have to lose?


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